just asking

How to move on? how to say I'm over? done with crying and welcome happiness? is it easy mending a broken and torn heart? are you able to heal it on your own, how to start and etc.. so many questions to answer yet the biggest question you have to face is ARE YOU READY TO LET GO? yes that's the hardest question you'll ever encounter when your in that phrase of your life.. so hard yet all you have to do after that tragic happening in your life is to cry,cry,cry... until you felt tried you'll stop and get mad to the person and realized you still love him after what happened and again you'll cry! It would be a cycle for you for the next two weeks or so.. friends will advice you to move on, go on,he's not the only fish in the sea..yes that is so right but its hard to do.. easily said that doing it! from my own dilemma I learned that you wont be able to forget nor erase that damn man who broke your heart you'll just accept that his not the right one for you, you'll just be immune to the pain and one day you wont feel it anymore. We can't erase memories especially with our ex's its stored in our brain and somehow, someday it will flash back to us! how to do it? have it your way.. of course we need guidance from God..you must pray a lot, have more time doing the hings you love, go out with your friends, read books..divert you time in stuffs that will make you happier. find time to laugh,as they say laughter is the best medicine. Look at the view in a positive way, you'll have more time for your ME time. after doing those things you will find out yourself enjoying and maybe learning to forgive and your heart is mending already. Just take it one step at a time. No need to rush! Besides everything happened for a reason. so enjoy it being single is not bad!! its beautiful! being single doesn't mean your alone,unhappy,unwanted. Your just waiting for the right one!.remember God grant thing in its perfect time. Not late nor advance! So keep on praying! keep on trusting Him! for God know what's best for us..